An Unexpected Newborn and a Difficult Decision in the Hospital

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A Night Filled with Anticipation Turns into an Unexpected Afternoon

When the evening contractions started, my husband and I felt a mix of excitement and anticipation. We were awaiting the birth of our fourth child, and by that time, our family was already considered “delightfully large.”

Our second and third children were twins, which was a surprising turn as there had never been twins before in our family. Before this pregnancy, a common joke among relatives was, “What if they turn out to be twins again?”

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The grandparents were taken aback and needed to provide a lot of support initially. As soon as the second ultrasound was performed, we already knew whether twins would arrive again.

But no, our fourth little “ninja” came alone. After everything was over, the difficulties seemed to fade into the past. We were given a private room, which my husband had thoughtfully booked in advance.

Shortly thereafter, the baby was brought to me for breastfeeding. Just minutes later, the head doctor entered with a concerned expression and started with, “We have a little problem…”

A Young Mother Leaves, Leaving Behind Her Newborn

That morning, an 18-year-old girl gave birth to a baby girl. She quickly wrote a statement and took a taxi to leave the hospital.

Although she was unable to walk immediately after giving birth, she was determined not to stay even a moment longer in the hospital. We had to respect that decision.

The baby was beautiful and healthy. I couldn’t help but think, “You wanted twins so badly. Maybe you could take this child?”

“We could say you gave birth to her…” I suggested. “I don’t want the baby to end up in an orphanage. What kind of life would that be? It breaks my heart…” Of course, such an act would be illegal.

An official adoption process could be started, but it would last for months and offer no guarantees. Until the paperwork was complete, the child would remain in the orphanage.

It was a deeply sorrowful situation. Honestly, I was shaken. I knew the head nurse, Ljudmila Stepanovna, well. She was a kind and warm-hearted woman. We had even spoken outside the hospital walls.

Perhaps this is why she approached me with such a delicate proposal.

“Circumstances sometimes demand the most unexpected solutions,” she explained.

Important Note: Situations like these illuminate the complex emotions and ethical dilemmas that surround childbirth, especially when young mothers face difficult decisions.

Ultimately, the events that unfolded reveal not only the unpredictability of life but also the compassion and challenges experienced by families and healthcare workers alike.

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